My daughter, Anna, and I visited several cemeteries on Sunday after Liturgy. One was the Jewish Cemetery – Beth Israel. She pointed out the stones laid reverently atop the tombstone and said this was done instead of leaving flowers. I had no clue. Stones left on a grave may at first seem odd to those of us not raised or schooled in the Jewish Tradition. However, no surprise, the tradition dates back to the Old Testament when altars were made … you guessed it … of stones! In the days of the Old Testament, before the tombstones we are familiar with today, people marked graves by a mound of stones. It also reminds us that it was upon a stone that Abraham offers his son Issac up to the Lord. (Genesis 22: 1-19). Christ Himself was laid in a tomb in which a stone was rolled in front of the entryway. (Matthew 27:59-60). “Stones are fitting symbols of the lasting presence of the deceased’s life and memory,” according to Shiva.com. Another site, MyJewishLearning.com, offers se...
by Jeanne Ruczhak-Eckman